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"The Ten
Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women—
And What To Do About It..."
Here Are The Top Ten
Reasons Why Men Fail With Women—And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of
These Deadly Common Mistakes...
-By
David DeAngelo, Author Of “Double Your Dating”
MISTAKE #1: Being
Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”
Have you ever noticed
that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice"
guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure
you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date
"jerks"... but for some reason they were never romantically
interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very
simple...
Women don't base their
choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do
because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a
woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn't
make a woman CHOOSE you.
I realize that this
doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET OVER
IT.
Until you accept this
FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you
want.
MISTAKE #2: Trying To
“Convince Her To Like You"
What do most guys do when
they meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just notinterested?
Right! They try to
"convince" the woman to feel differently.
Well, I have news for
you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO
ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER.
You cannot CONVINCE a
woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning".
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't
"feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that
FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't
interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will
never work.
MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her
For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to please
women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always
doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are NEVER attracted
to the types of men who kiss up to them... EVER.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat
women BADLY for them to like you.
But if you think that
treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission
for things", think again.
You will never succeed by
looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their
approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any
attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy
her...
MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection
With Food And Gifts
How many times have you
taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her
REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?
If you're like me, then
you've had it happen a LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only NATURAL when
this happens...
That's right, I said
NATURAL.
When you do these things,
you send a clear message:
"I don't think
you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and
affection".
Your good
intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity,
and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as
MANIPULATION.
MISTAKE #5: Sharing
“How You Feel” Too Early In
The Relationship With Her
Another huge and
unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they
"feel" too early on.
Attractive women are
rare.
And they get a LOT of
attention from men.
Most men don't realize
this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE
An attractive woman is
often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translate
into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have
usually dated a LOT of men.
That's right. They have
EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns
an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about
anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like
you" after one or two dates.
This signals to the woman
that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast... and can't
control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back.
Relax.
There's a much better
way...
MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction
Works For Women
Women are VERY different
from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this
fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a
beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply
for women?
Do women feel sexual
attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this
topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have
their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Have you ever noticed
that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than
the other way around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted
to certain qualities in men... and they're attracted to the way a man makes
them FEEL than they are to looks alone.
If you know how to use
your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the
same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a
hot, sexy young woman.
But it's not an accident.
You have to LEARN how to do this.
And ANY guy can learn
how...
MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It
Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common
mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started...
because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks
and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain age.
And sure, there are some
women who are only interested in these things.
But MOST women are far
more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.
There are personality
traits that attract women like a magnet...
And if you learn what
they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to
"settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If
you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can
make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU
feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.
MISTAKE #8: Giving Away
All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that
it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.
Well, another similar
tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.
Said differently, guys
try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea...
Women are NEVER attracted
to men that they can walk all over... Women aren't attracted to Wussies!
MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing
EXACTLY What To Do In Each
Type Of Situation With Women
Now I'm going to blow
your mind...
A woman ALWAYS knows what
you're thinking.
Women are approximately
TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES.
I know, it might be hard
to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want
to kiss her, she knows it.
And if you don't know
exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking
at her and getting nervous, she won't help!
And this goes for ALL
aspects of women and dating...
Approaching a woman,
getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical...
everything.
If you don't know what to
do in each situation, you will probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is VITALLY important
that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman... from the
first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.
MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP
This is the biggest
mistake of all.
This is the mistake that
keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly
want.
I know, guys don't like
to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.
Hey, I've been there
myself.
Let me tell you a little
about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women...
About five years ago I
became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get
dates with women that I was attracted to.
It frustrated the hell
out of me.
One night I was out with
a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the
nerve to do it. I can still remember that night... right on the spot I made the
decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and
dating.
Well, after a lot of hard
work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.
I can now approach just
about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I've dated models, I've
dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.
It has been a very
rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling... like I
don't know how to meet women... and I might wind up alone.
I know that anytime,
anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.
I've written a book on
the topic, and I've done seminars on both coasts of the United States... and
taught tens of thousands of men all around the world.
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Your Friend,
David
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